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‫ﺇﻥ ﺭﺍﺣﺔ ﺍﻟﺒﺎﻝ ﻫﻲ ﻣﻌﺮﻓﺔ ﺃﻧﻚ ﻗﻤﺖ ﺑﻌﻤﻞ ﻛﺎﻥ ﻳﻨﺒﻐﻲ ﻋﻠﻴﻚ ﺍﻟﻘﻴﺎﻡ ﺑﻪ ، ﻭﺃﻥ ﺗﻐﻔﺮ ﻟﻨﻔﺴﻚ ﺍﻟﻠﺤﻈﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﱵ ﱂ ﺗﻜﻦ ﻓﻴﻬﺎ ﺑﺎﻟﻘﻮﺓ ﺍﻟﱵ ﻛﻨﺖ ﺗﺮﻳﺪ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﻋﻠﻴﻬﺎ .‬ ‫ﺇﻥ ﺭﺍﺣﺔ ﺍﻟﺒﺎﻝ ﻟﻴﺴﺖ ﺑﺎﻟﺸﻲﺀ ﺍﻟﻌﺴﲑ .‬ ‫ﻋﻨﺪﻣﺎ ﻳﺘﻮﺟﺐ ﻋﻠﻴﻚ ﺍﻟﻌﻤﻞ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺇﳚﺎﺩ ﺭﺍﺣﺔ ﺍﻟﺒﺎﻝ ، ﻓﻠﻦ ﺗﺪﺭﻛﻬﺎ ﻷﻥ ﺭﺍﺣﺔ ﺍﻟﺒﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﱵ ﲢﺎﻭﻝ ﺍﻟﺒﺤﺚ‬ ‫ﻋﻨﻬﺎ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﻫﺸﺔ ﻭﻣﺆﻗﺘﺔ ﻟﻠﻐﺎﻳﺔ .‬ ‫ﺇﻥ ﺭﺍﺣﺔ ﺍﻟﺒﺎﻝ ﳚﺐ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻮﺟﺪ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﻟﻌﻤﻞ ﺍﳉﻴﺪ ﻭﻟﻴﺴﺖ ﻧﺘﻴﺠﺔ ﻟﻪ . ﺇﺫﺍ ﻛﻨﺖ ﺗﺘﻤﺘﻊ ﺑﻮﺟـﻮﺩ ﻧﻮﺍﻳـﺎ‬ ‫ﺣﺴﻨﻪ ﻟﺪﻳﻚ ، ﺳﻴﻤﻜﻨﻚ ﺣﻴﻨﺌﺬ ﺃﻥ ﲢﻈﻰ ﺑﺮﺍﺣﺔ ﺍﻟﺒﺎﻝ .‬ ‫ﹰ‬ ‫ﳝﻜﻨﻚ ﺃﻥ ﲢﻈﻰ ﺑﺮﺍﺣﺔ ﺍﻟﺒﺎﻝ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺼﻔﺢ ﻋﻦ ﺍﻵﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﺇﺫﺍ ﻛﻨﺖ ﺻﺎﺩﻗﺎ ﻭﻟﺪﻳﻚ ﻧﻴﺔ ﰲ ﺍﻟﺼﻔﺢ .‬ ‫ﳝﻜﻨﻚ ﺃﻥ ﲢﻈﻰ ﺑﺮﺍﺣﺔ ﺍﻟﺒﺎﻝ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻮﺍﺟﻪ ﻣﻮﻗﻔﺎ ﺻﻌﺒﺎ ﺇﺫﺍ ﻣﺎ ﻛﻨﺖ ﳏﺪﺩﹰﺍ ﰲ ﻧﻮﺍﻳﺎﻙ ﲡﺎﻩ ﻣﻮﺍﺟﻬﺘﻪ .‬ ‫ﹰ ﹰ‬ ‫ﺇﻥ ﺭﺍﺣﺔ ﺍﻟﺒﺎﻝ ﺗﻜﻤﻦ ﰲ ﻗﺒﻮﻝ ﺍﻷﺷﻴﺎﺀ ﺍﳉﻴﺪﺓ ﻟﺪﻳﻚ ، ﻭﻋﺰﻣﻚ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻔﻌﻞ ﺍﻟﺼﻮﺍﺏ .‬ ‫ﹰ‬ ‫ﹰ‬ ‫ﺇﺫﺍ ﻛﺎﻥ ﻟﺰﺍﻣﺎ ﻋﻠﻴﻚ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻨﺠﺰ ﺷﻴﺌﺎ ﻛﻲ ﲢﻈﻰ ﺑﺮﺍﺣﺔ ﺍﻟﺒﺎﻝ –ﺣﱴ ﻭﺇﻥ ﻛﺎﻥ ﻫﺬﺍ ﺍﻟﺸﻲﺀ ﻫﻮ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻘﻮﻡ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﻠﻢ ﺧﲑﻱ ﻟﺘﺼﻠﺢ ﺿﺮﺭﹰﺍ ﻗﺪ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﺃﳊﻘﺘﻪ ﺑﺎﻵﺧﺮﻳﻦ ﺃﻭ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻠﺘﺰﻡ ﺑﻮﻋﻮﺩﻙ- ﻓﺈﻥ ﺭﺍﺣﺔ ﺑﺎﻟﻚ ﺣﻴﻨﺌﺬ ﺗﺘﻼﺷﻰ‬ ‫ﺑﺴﺮﻋﺔ ﺍﻟﱪﻕ‬ ‫ﺇﻥ ﺭﺍﺣﺔ ﺍﻟﺒﺎﻝ ﺍﳊﻘﻴﻘﺔ ﻫﻲ ﻣﻌﺮﻓﺔ ﺃﻧﻚ ﺳﺘﻔﻌﻞ ﻣﺎ ﲢﺘﺎﺝ ﻓﻌﻠﻪ ، ﻭﺍﻹﳝﺎﻥ ﺑﺎﳉﻮﺍﻧﺐ ﺍﻹﳚﺎﺑﻴـﺔ ﻟـﺪﻳﻚ‬ ‫ﻭﻗﺪﺭﺗﻚ ﻋﻠﻰ ﲢﻘﻴﻖ ﺗﻠﻚ ﺍﳉﻮﺍﻧﺐ .‬ 
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‫ﺇﻧﲏ ﺃﻓﻌﻞ ﺧﲑﹰﺍ .‬
‫ﺇﻧﲏ ﺃﻧﻮﻱ ﺧﲑﹰﺍ .‬ ‫ﺇﻧﲏ ﺷﺨﺺ ﺻﺎﱀ.‬